If strangers meet life begins

If strangers meet life begins I. Flying back home to MIT from home in South Bend (not a typo), I had a perfect view of Cambridge and Boston out my window. The plane was flying east as I stared north at the city I now call home, and the Charles River and the bay glittered like uncut gems in the light. It took me but a moment to notice the Green Building, standing taller than any other building in Cambridge, marking claiming MITs place in the vast cityscape, drawing my eyes like a beacon. And in that moment MIT unfolded for me, as I saw the entire campus, from west to east, east to west, and all the other bits and pieces of buildings strewn throughout Boston and Cambridge. It was so beautiful I didnt want the plane to land. II. Almost precisely a year ago, when I was but a newly arrived freshman on MITs campus, one of the speakers during my Orientation challenged my classmates and me to meet at least five new people each day of Orientation. But he didnt mean just say hi to five people and try to remember their names when you ran into them randomly in the Infinite or before your 18.02 test three weeks later. No, he meant get to know them where they lived, what they wanted to study, what they liked to do for fun. What made them tick. What made them unique. Tall order? Maybe. But if you just try, think youd be surprised by what happens. III. As I write this entry, I can see MIT perfectly outside the window of my fraternity. Dorm Row and the twin domes, Mass Ave and the bridge, the boathouse and the Green Building the same buildings I saw from the air. The view is still mind-blowingly beautiful. But its not the same. Is everything just a matter of perspective? IV. As my friends know, Im a pretty big fan of the University of Notre Dame, which is located in South Bend and in whose laboratories I first discovered my passion for biomedical research. Unsurprisingly, every now and then I wear a Notre Dame hat around campus and I was wearing one on my flight back to Boston. So I wasnt too surprised when, just as I was settling into my seat, the person in the seat next to me nudged his wife and said, He must go to Notre Dame. At the time, I had been in the middle of a great book How Doctors Think, by Dr. Gerome Groopman, himself a Bostonian and was burning to return to it and continue reading. But instead I smiled, and explained I was from South Bend, but actually I went to MIT. And the man said, Ahh, and I asked him, in return, why he was headed to Boston and so I found myself drawn into a conversation that lasted for a good fifteen minutes, that meandered from my interest in bioengineering and biomedicine to his passion for electronics, from his exploits helping unlock the (original) iPhone to my dream of using computer technology to advance biomedicine even farther than it has already gone. We got on the plane as complete strangers. And though we never spoke again after that original conversation, I left the plane feeilng as though I knew him, even if it had been only for a moment. V. I met lots of people during Orientation, but I didnt really get to know most of them. Looking back, I wish I had put a little more effort into it. Dont get me wrong: Ive met more than enough people, found more than enough friends, to keep me happy. But Orientation is one of the few times everyone is trying to meet people. And you should take advantage of that. So get out of your room. Close those books, stop checking Facebook, take a break from studying for those advanced standing exams. Go out and meet people. Check out the dorms, each with its own culture and quirks, its own habits and tradition (almost as if each dorm is, itself, a person or at least a personality). Explore. Laugh. Live. Find friends to last a lifetime. Or at least four years.